Monday, February 7, 2011

What are the warning signs of a serial bully?

Reference checks are mandatory and the best way you to get warning signs. Devise yourself a checklist that will give you warning signs.

However, these people are very clever and you may not pick up from a previous employer as they will only give you people they know will give them a good reference. This of course can make reference checks difficult.

However take into account their employment record. How many jobs have the had in the last 5 years. This is some indication there is a problem.

Remember the Serial Bully is an adept liar so it may also be difficult to pick up from their body language.

They will, however tell you all the things that were wrong with their previous employer and the people there. If this occurs don't let your ego get in the way. Just listen and take notes. Do not employ on the spot.

While you have to be careful with the questions you ask if you can engage them into a conversation where they do the talking and tell you about their background, what they like doing, what are their goals you may just find little pieces of information will surface. They may even contradict themselves.

It is a tricky one with questions to ask but if they willingly chat to you just listen. You may be surprised what yo find out.

My suggestion is if you have any doubt, dont employ.

I am going to follow this topic through on the next blog and will start to unravel the personality type that fits the serial bully. I just may help you identify any people you currently employ and prevent you from employing these people in future.

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